I have been dating a guy for 2 months. I'm not on the pill, we've had sex, but he's never 'you know' inside of me. The last time i had my period was the week of sept 15th. I was expecting it any day now. I was paranoid about not being on the pill so on oct 4th i took a pg test-negative. Yesterday I ended up taking 4 tests-ALL positive! The guy i'm with seems to be in denial. He's like, just wait a few more days till you get your period. This morning i did a clear blue test and it said, 'pregnant'. I went to the dr, they drew blood, said yes it sonds like i'm pg. Guy i'm with did not want me to get blood test this morning, wanted me to just wait and chill. How far along do you think i am if I just had my period the week of sept 16th? Is it possible i got pg before that and still got my period? I dont want to have a baby...but i dont want to have an abortion :(
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You are probably only a couple of weeks along. It is possibly to get your period when your pregnant.
you took at test on the 4th and it was negative so chances you were pregnant before are not likely..
If you didnt want to get pregnant, you should have taken precautions especially with someone you have not been with too long. If you dont want the baby, and dont want an abortion, you are left with adoption...Before making and rash decision i would talk with your parents and his parents... this may not be as bad as you are thinking it is... you made your bed, you should have to lay in it now.
You would be about 4 weeks 2 days pregnant now with a last period of september 15th
This is hard. Yes you should of used protection but stuff happens. And if it was meant to be you would get pregnant with the pill. I know people that have had all their kids when they are on the pill. What I would say to you is if you don't want the baby then give it up for adoption. There are so many couples that would love a baby and cant have one. And you might change your mind. You don't want to live with the abortion the rest of your life so think that one through for a while. People told my mom to have one because she was too young, 21, and now I am 21 years old and trying to have a baby of my own. Just think it through:) If you need to talk I'm more than willing to lend a ear.
I believe it is possible but not likely. It's common to get some bleeding during the first months of pregnancy but it's harder to get a regular period.
So considering that they count weeks since your last normal period I would say you're about 4 weeks pregnant by now. Now forget about the guy for a minute and make sure you get your decision without thinking of him. It's your body and your baby so the decision is yours. If you're SURE you don't want to have the baby you could still put him/her for adoption.
I'm not one of those who claim to be strongly against abortion. There are people that just can't avoid doing it. But it's surely less then the 10% of those that actually do it. I'm not sure how old you are, but trust me a baby is nothing to be scared of. It's a lot of responsibility and it's true you won't have time for anything else for a while, but it will make you so happy that you will soon forget about everything else.
About the guy, well at the moment he could just be scared, give him some time and see how he reacts when he is in the right state of mind. Good luck!
You are about a month along, but I lost my pregnancy around 6 weeks, so maybe yours isn't meant to be...
If you took 4 pg tests and they all came back pregnant and then had blood test done came back pregnant then get the point you are pregnant... If you didn't want a baby you should have used condoms and the pull out thing doesn't work a lot of women get pregnant that way too I know some who have gotten pregnant that way and so have I. You should try to talk to him about it,if he is still in denial after you talk then leave him alone and take care of your self and your baby.
you might be pregnant. better talk to the guy and keep the baby..
u might be already 2 months pregnant..
look for a gestation calculator on the net
try it here.. babycenter.com
Give the baby up for adoption then. There are soooo many families out there who want a baby and can't. It's hard to do but way better than abortion. You can have an open adoption if you want and get updates on how the baby is do it. I gave a child up for adoption when I was 18 and it's really hard to do. Knowing the she is happy and doing well though is a lot better than wondering what she could have been if I'd had an abortion. Good luck!
I hate that most people here are telling you what you should/should not have done, that is not helpful. You are indeed about 4 weeks pregnant, the odds of having 4 false positive pregnancy tests are near impossible. I have been in your shoes before and found lots of help and resources at a family clinic. They can give you all your options and help you make the right choice for YOU.
Sorry honey you are definitely pregnant, those blood tests are not wrong. I really hope you do not have an abortion! If you cannot or do not want to keep this baby, then I really hope you will consider adoption.
Wow, I feel for you. I been in similar situations where I was pregnant and didn't want to be. So you really have some big decisions to make. I would say you probably just got pregnant because I new a few day before I even got my period that I was pregnant. Your choices are keeping the baby or adoption. I know it's hard right now and this is your first baby but, probably around five or six months when the baby starts moving your feelings will change. If they don't, you should look into adoption. There is no easy answers for this situation. If he's not going to support you then you should cut him loose. Good Luck
Adoption sweetie.
Its hard, I'm 18 years old and 20 weeks along and single, the jerk left me two months into the pregnancy AND IT WAS PLANNED!
We're both pre-med and we wanted to start a family early because we didn't see it in our future otherwise. It's very hard but I can't wait for this baby to come out, I love it sooo much.
LMP sept 16 you are roughly 4 weeks...
You are in a tough spot. The good thing is that if you are indeed pregnant, which it sounds like you are, the guy has eight to nine months (depending on how far you are) to get used to the idea. There are very seldom any false positive tests. You said that you have had at least 5 positives just on hpt's. Sounds like a positive pregnancy to me. Don't stress out. It's not good for you or the baby. Look at it in another perspective. Some people are not able to concieve a child. You have that ability. Whether you want to have the baby or not, you are able to convieve. Congrats on that. There's always adoption if you still don't want the baby after it's born. Good luck on what you decide.
Your pregnant! Having unprotected sex causes pregnancy hun, if you didn't want to have a baby you know what you should have done. It's too late now though, so why dwell on it? Now its time to just take responsibility for your actions.
If you don't want a baby, you should have used a condom or been on the pill. Pre-ejaculate can get you pregnant just as easily as ejaculate can (which you now know). You could be around 5-6 weeks pregnant, but only a doctor can give you a more accurate estimate. If you don't want your baby, but don't want an abortion, then think about adoption which really is the only option.
If you didn't want a baby you should of been on some sort of birth control. The only thing you can do now is except the fact that you are going to be a mother and deal with it in a positive manner.
well firsty of all well done for going to the doc b4 asking on here (most ppl dont bother and think ppl on here can tell them if they are not) and if you was to be pregnant after your last period i would think your be just coming up to 3 weeks pregnant but it is possible to get pregnant and have a period in which case you would prob be able coming up to 6 weeks pregnant, best of luck hunni xcx
i agree with pippin... you need to make a decision! you should have used protection. which ever decision you make is yours and dont let anyone tell you different!
Should've used a condom....
Well, hun your pregnant and hopefully the father will come out of shock here soon. If you don't want to have the baby but don't want to have an abortion (good for you!) then consider adoption. I would really evaluate why you don't want to have the baby and make sure they are reasonable reasons. As your belly grows, you will most likely change your mind and fall in love with the life you have created.
Best of luck.
He doesn't have to "you know" in you for you to become pregnant. There is sperm in pre-ejaculation.
Why have sex if you don't want a baby? Why did you ahve sex without getting on the pill first? Why have sex when the bf didn't wear a condom?
Did you miss your sex-ed classes??
Sorry, but can't stand for plain stupidity. People/kids should know how babies are made, and they should know that the chances of getting pregnant without the pill or condoms are great.
If you don't wan the baby, then put it up for adoption. Then be smart and keep your legs closed till you want a baby.
Ummm.... if you didn't want to be pregnant, why didnt' you use birth control? Withdrawal is NOT an effective method.
But ... too late to shut the stable door now. You're pregnant, (just about a month) so you have only a few possible options.
1. Have an abortion.
2. Have the baby and surrender it for adoption.
3. Have the baby and raise it. (Either alone, or marrying the father.)
No-one here can tell you what to do. Even if none of the options are what you WANT ... you still have to pick one.
Well... Obviously he did "you know" inside of you.
Men/boys/Males whatever u want to call them will tell you ANYTHING to get that quick fix.
He sounds like a jerk - if I were you I would take care of my business and get his a** for child support.
Good luck. I'll keep u in my prayers!
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